Posted on March 1, 2008 by workmashbob
What are your strategies for coping with a stressful job
Your Rant: The stress at work is really starting to get to me. Any advice on how to just survive today’s workplace?
911 Repair:
Just when you thought the workplace was overstressed, comes word from Microsoft that it’s going to get worse. Microsoft’s British division announced [...]
Filed under: Burned Out (T), Emotional Intelligence (V), Getting More Done (G) | Tagged: Burned Out, overwhelmed at work, pressure at work, Stress, stressful job | No Comments »
Posted on January 24, 2008 by workmashbob
What is your strategy for apologizing by email?
Your Rant: I screwed up with a co-worker who works in an office in another state. I prefer to apologize to someone face-to-face, but I very seldom get to see this guy. What can I do?
911 Repair,
Your email reminded me of “Teen Buzz,” an invention that was created [...]
Filed under: Conflict (T), Emotional Intelligence (V), Leadership Mistakes (M) | Tagged: apologize via email, email apology, say you're sorry | 3 Comments »
Posted on November 21, 2007 by workmashbob
What is your strategy for working with a man or woman boss?
Your Rant: I really struggle to understand how men think at work. Can you give me some insight so I can do a better job of working with them?
911 Repair:
Whenever I think of the workplace battle of the sexes, I think of Michael [...]
Filed under: Boss Management (G), Emotional Intelligence (V), Managing a Diverse Workforce (V) | Tagged: Boss, gender, Man, Woman, working for the opposite sex | 2 Comments »
Posted on November 5, 2007 by workmashbob
What’s your strategy for being less cynical?
Your Rant: Recently I was having lunch with some coworkers and I realized that every word coming out of my mouth was negative. What can I do to become less cynical?
911 Repair:
Your email reminded me of the school board election in Mississippi County, Arkansas, earlier this fall. There [...]
Filed under: Burned Out (T), Emotional Intelligence (V) | Tagged: Burned Out (T), Cynical, Less cynical, Negative | No Comments »
Posted on November 5, 2007 by workmashbob
What’s your strategy for being happier at work?
DEAR READERS: Recently, a book came across my desk titled, “Be Happy at Work: 100 Women Who Love Their Jobs, and Why.” I had to talk to its author, Joanne Gordon, a Forbes contributing editor.Joanne’s message about defining the keys to happiness will resonate for anyone trying to [...]
Filed under: Emotional Intelligence (V), Getting Ahead Strategies (G) | Tagged: Happier at work, meaning at work, pride at work, purpose at work, Women | No Comments »
Posted on November 4, 2007 by workmashbob
What’s your strategy for building resilience at work?
Your Rant: I remember when work was really easy. These days everything seems like it’s a pain. The problem is that I feel like I’m becoming less resilient. Any thoughts on how I can become better able to handle all the garbage at work?
911 Repair:
One of [...]
Filed under: Burned Out (T), Emotional Intelligence (V), Maintaining Perspective (E) | Tagged: Burned Out (T), Challenges at work, More resilient, Resilient, tough job | No Comments »
Posted on November 4, 2007 by workmashbob
DEAR WW: I would like to make suggestions on how to improve things at work, but I don’t want to get the reputation as a troublemaker or whiner. Is there a way to offer criticism and not look like a jerk? CRITICAL THINKER
DEAR CRITICAL:
Your e-mail reminded me of a guy who stole a fire department [...]
Filed under: Conflict (T), Emotional Intelligence (V), Feedback & Evaluations (G) | Tagged: constructive criticism, Criticism, Feedback, negative feedback | No Comments »
Posted on November 4, 2007 by workmashbob
DEAR WW: I’m starting to notice that I’m having trouble waking up in the morning to go to work. I’ve never had this problem before. What do you do when the passion disappears? PASSIONLESS
DEAR PASSIONLESS:
Your e-mail reminded me of a supermarket cashier in Oakland, Calif. This cashier was so popular that people would line up [...]
Filed under: Burned Out (T), Emotional Intelligence (V), Trouble in Past & Self Assessment (F) | Tagged: Burned Out (T), motivation problems, Passion problems | No Comments »
Posted on November 3, 2007 by workmashbob
I read a great article on Karl Rove, a.k.a. the President’s Svengali. In the article it talked about the fact that in politics there are two kinds of people-”lumpers” and “splitters.” Lumpers try to build the biggest possible coalition to get the policies they want while splitters use wedge issues to divide and conquer the [...]
Filed under: Emotional Intelligence (V), Getting Ahead Strategies (G), Working Collaboratively (V) | Tagged: bring people together, divide and conquer, lumper, splitter | No Comments »
Posted on November 2, 2007 by workmashbob
Dear WW: I made a mistake that caused a lot of extra work and problems for one of my colleagues. I’m embarrassed to admit it, and nervous of the consequences, but I can’t keep avoiding this woman: we’re in the same workgroup. I don’t know what to do. EGG ALL OVER MY FACE
Dear Egg,
You know [...]
Filed under: Conflict (T), Emotional Intelligence (V), Feedback & Evaluations (G), Getting Ahead Strategies (G) | Tagged: apology at work, saying you are sorry, successful apology | No Comments »